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Chinese filler words
The “um” of Mandarin is 那个 (nèige). Here it is with the other words Chinese speakers say while they think, link, soften and listen, each in a sentence with pinyin and sound.
那个 · 这个 · 呃: um, uh: while you think
那个 (nèige) is the “um” of Mandarin, said while you look for the next word; it means “that”, and it is the word that sounds like an English slur to English ears. 这个 (zhèige), “this”, does the same job, and 呃 (è) is a plain “uh”.
那个……你今天晚上有空吗?
Um… are you free tonight?
那个 · um (while you think)
这个……我得想一想。
Well… I need to think about it.
这个 · um, well (while you think)
呃,我忘了他叫什么名字。
Uh, I forgot his name.
呃 · uh
然后 · 就是 · 那 · 所以: and then, I mean, so: telling a story
然后 is “and then”, said again and again as a story goes on; 就是 is “I mean, it’s just…” before you explain; 那 starts a sentence with “well then”; 所以 is “so”, at the start of what follows.
我下了班,然后去超市,然后就回家了。
I finished work, then went to the supermarket, and then went home.
然后 · and then
就是……我觉得有点儿贵。
It’s just… I think it’s a bit expensive.
就是 · I mean, it’s just
那我们明天见吧。
Well then, see you tomorrow.
那 · well then
所以,你到底去不去?
So, are you going or not?
所以 · so
其实 · 反正 · 好像: actually, anyway, kind of
其实 is “actually”, before what is really so; 反正 is “anyway”, whatever else is true; 好像 is “it seems, kind of”, when you aren’t sure.
其实我不太喜欢吃辣的。
Actually, I don’t really like spicy food.
其实 · actually
反正我也没事,我陪你去吧。
I’ve got nothing on anyway, so I’ll go with you.
反正 · anyway
他好像不在家。
He doesn’t seem to be home.
好像 · it seems, kind of
嗯 · 对 · 是吗 · 吧: mm-hmm, right, really?
嗯 (ǹg) is “mm-hmm”, I’m listening, or yes; 对 is “right”, often said three times (对对对); 是吗 is “really?”; 吧 at the end of a sentence asks “…, right?”.
嗯,我知道了。
Mm-hmm, got it.
嗯 · mm-hmm, yes
对对对,就是这样。
Right, right, exactly.
对 · right
是吗?我还不知道。
Really? I didn’t know.
是吗 · really?
你是新来的吧?
You’re new here, right?
吧 · …, right?
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Why does a common Chinese word sound like the N-word?
The word is 那个 (nèige). It means “that”, and it is also the Mandarin “um”, said while the speaker looks for the next word, so you hear it in almost every conversation. It has nothing to do with the English word; it only sounds close to English ears. It is one of the most-viewed questions on Chinese Language Stack Exchange.
What is “um” in Chinese?
那个 (nèige) or 这个 (zhèige) while you look for a word, and 呃 (è) for a plain “uh”. While someone else talks, 嗯 (ǹg) is “mm-hmm”.
Is 那个 rude?
No. 那个 is an everyday word, “that”, and as a filler it is as plain as “um”. Nothing about it is rude in Chinese.
What does 然后 mean?
然后 (ránhòu) means “then, after that”. In speech it links one thing to the next as a story goes on, said again and again, like “and then” in English.
Should I use filler words when I speak Chinese?
Yes, a few. 那个 while you think sounds more natural in Chinese than an English “um”, and 嗯 and 对 while someone talks show you are following.
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