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HSK 6 · Article · 695 characters · Listen: mandarinthewild.com/library/read/what-is-zuo-yuezi-chinese-postpartum-confinement-explained

什么是“坐月子”?

What is zuo yuezi? Chinese postpartum confinement explained

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在zài中国zhōngguó,女性nǚxìng分娩fēnmiǎn以后yǐhòu,往往wángwǎng要yào“坐月子zuòyuèzi”:在家zàijiā休养xiūyǎng大约dàyuē一个yígè月yuè,尽量jǐnliàng不bù出门chūmén,由yóu家人jiārén或huò专人zhuānrén照料zhàoliào。对duì许多xǔduō外国人wàiguórén来lái说shuō,这个zhège习俗xísú既jì神秘shénmì又yòu难以nányǐ理解líjiě;而ér在zài中国zhōngguó,几乎jīhū每个měigè家庭jiātíng都dōu能néng说出shuōchū一套yítào关于guānyú月子yuèzi的de规矩guīju。

传统chuántǒng的de规矩guīju大多dàduō围绕wéirào一yí个gè字zì:“寒hán”。不少bùshǎo长辈zhǎngbèi认为rènwéi,产妇chǎnfù刚gāng生shēng完wán孩子háizi,身体shēntǐ虚弱xūruò,最zuì怕pà受shòu风fēng着凉zháoliáng,因此yīncǐ月子yuèzi里li必须bìxū紧闭jǐnbì门窗ménchuāng,不能bùnéng碰pèng冷水léngshuǐ,有的yǒude地方dìfang甚至shènzhì规定guīdìng一个yígè月yuè内nèi不bù洗头xǐtóu、不bù洗澡xízǎo、不bù刷牙shuāyá。饮食yǐnshí上shàng,小米xiáomǐ粥zhōu、红糖hóngtáng水shuǐ、鸡汤jītāng和hé鸡蛋jīdàn是shì常见chángjiàn的de“月子yuèzi餐cān”,生冷shēnglěng的de食物shíwù则zé被bèi视为shìwéi禁忌jìnjì。

支持者zhīchízhě认为rènwéi,这个zhège习俗xísú的de核心héxīn是shì合理hélǐ的de。分娩fēnmiǎn对duì身体shēntǐ是shì一次yícì巨大jùdà的de消耗xiāohào,医学yīxué上shàng通常tōngcháng把bǎ产后chǎnhòu大约dàyuē六liù周zhōu看作kànzuò身体shēntǐ恢复huīfù的de关键guānjiàn阶段jiēduàn。在zài此cǐ期间qījiān,产妇chǎnfù需要xūyào充足chōngzú的de休息xiūxi和hé营养yíngyǎng,也yě需要xūyào有人yǒurén帮忙bāngmáng照料zhàoliào新生儿xīnshēng’ér。坐月子zuòyuèzi让ràng整zhěng个gè家庭jiātíng把bǎ注意力zhùyìlì集中jízhōng到dào母亲mǔqīn身上shēnshang,在zài许多xǔduō人rén看来kànlái,这zhè一点yìdiǎn值得zhídé传承chuánchéng下去xiàqu。

反对者fǎnduìzhě则zé指出zhǐchū,一些yìxiē老lǎo规矩guīju缺乏quēfá科学kēxué依据yījù,甚至shènzhì可能kěnéng危害wēihài产妇chǎnfù的de健康jiànkāng。医生yīshēng普遍pǔbiàn建议jiànyì,产妇chǎnfù可以kéyǐ用yòng温水wēnshuǐ洗头xǐtóu、洗澡xízǎo,也yě应该yīnggāi正常zhèngcháng刷牙shuāyá。长期chángqī卧床wòchuáng不bú动dòng,反而fǎn’ér不利于búlìyú恢复huīfù,还hái会huì增加zēngjiā形成xíngchéng血栓xuèshuān的de风险fēngxiǎn。每měi到dào夏天xiàtiān,媒体méitǐ也yě常常chángcháng报道bàodào这样zhèyàng的de事shì:产妇chǎnfù被bèi关guān在zài门窗ménchuāng紧闭jǐnbì的de房间fángjiān里li,盖gài着zhe厚hòu被子bèizi,结果jiéguǒ中暑zhòngshǔ。

如今rújīn,坐月子zuòyuèzi这zhè一yì习俗xísú本身běnshēn也yě在zài发生fāshēng变化biànhuà。在zài一些yìxiē大城市dàchéngshì,越来越yuèláiyuè多duō的de家庭jiātíng聘请pìnqǐng专业zhuānyè的de“月嫂yuèsǎo”到dào家里jiālǐ帮忙bāngmáng,或者huòzhě干脆gāncuì住zhù进jìn“月子中心yuèzi-zhōngxīn”。月子中心yuèzi-zhōngxīn像xiàng酒店jiǔdiàn一样yíyàng,提供tígōng住宿zhùsù、月子yuèzi餐cān以及yǐjí产妇chǎnfù和hé新生儿xīnshēng’ér的de护理hùlǐ,一个yígè月yuè的de费用fèiyong动辄dòngzhé几万jǐwàn元yuán。有人yǒurén认为rènwéi聘请pìnqǐng月嫂yuèsǎo、住zhù月子中心yuèzi-zhōngxīn是shì值得zhídé的de投资tóuzī,也yě有人yǒurén觉得juéde这zhè是shì被bèi商业shāngyè放大fàngdà的de焦虑jiāolǜ。

在zài不少bùshǎo家庭jiātíng里li,月子yuèzi也yě是shì两liǎng代dài人rén观念guānniàn碰撞pèngzhuàng最zuì激烈jīliè的de一段时间yíduàn-shíjiān。年轻niánqīng的de妈妈māma只zhǐ想xiǎng用yòng温水wēnshuǐ痛快tòngkuài地de洗头xǐtóu、洗澡xízǎo,长辈zhǎngbèi却què担心dānxīn她tā“留下liúxia病根bìnggēn”,会huì难受nánshòu一辈子yíbèizi。一方面yìfāngmiàn是shì医生yīshēng的de建议jiànyì,另一方面lìngyìfāngmiàn是shì长辈zhǎngbèi的de关心guānxīn,如何rúhé权衡quánhéng,往往wángwǎng比bǐ规矩guīju本身běnshēn更gèng让ràng人rén头疼tóuténg。

说到底shuōdàodǐ,坐月子zuòyuèzi的de意义yìyì并不bìngbú在于zàiyú某mǒu一yì条tiáo规矩guīju,而ér在于zàiyú让ràng刚gāng成为chéngwéi母亲mǔqīn的de人rén好好háohǎo休息xiūxi、被bèi好好háohǎo照顾zhàogù。你nǐ的de国家guójiā有yǒu类似lèisì的de习俗xísú吗ma?如果rúguǒ是shì你nǐ,你nǐ会huì怎样zěnyàng度过dùguò产后chǎnhòu的de这zhè一个yígè月yuè?

Key words

WordPinyinMeaning
尽量jǐnliàngas much as possible
神秘shénmìmysterious; mystical
难以nányǐhard to; difficult to
传统chuántǒngtradition; traditional; conventional
大多dàduōmostly; for the most part
着凉zháoliángto catch a chill
碰pèngto touch; to bump
饮食yǐnshífood and drink; diet; eating and drinking
视为shìwéito regard as; to view as
合理hélǐreasonable; rational
巨大jùdàhuge; enormous; tremendous
医学yīxuémedicine; medical science

Questions

  1. 传统的规矩最怕什么?

    What do traditional rules fear most?

    A. 吃得太多B. 睡得太久C. 受风着凉

  2. 医生觉得产妇可以怎么做?

    What do doctors think new mothers can do?

    A. 一个月不刷牙B. 用温水洗头、洗澡C. 一直躺在床上

  3. 月子中心提供什么?

    What do confinement centers provide?

    A. 工作和学习B. 住宿、月子餐和护理C. 旅行和买东西

Lesson plan: 45 minutes (for the teacher)

HSK 6 · What is zuo yuezi? Chinese postpartum confinement explained. By the end, students can read it aloud, say what it is about and use 尽量 and 神秘 in sentences of their own.

  1. Warm-up 5 min

    Write 什么是“坐月子”? on the board. Ask what the class thinks it is about, then give the English: “What is zuo yuezi? Chinese postpartum confinement explained”.

  2. Key words 10 min

    Teach 尽量 (jǐnliàng, as much as possible), 神秘 (shénmì, mysterious; mystical), 难以 (nányǐ, hard to; difficult to), 传统 (chuántǒng, tradition; traditional; conventional), 大多 (dàduō, mostly; for the most part), 着凉 (zháoliáng, to catch a chill). Say each one, the class says it back, then ask for its meaning with the word covered. The rest are in the handout’s table.

  3. Listen 10 min

    Play it read aloud from mandarinthewild.com/library/read/what-is-zuo-yuezi-chinese-postpartum-confinement-explained: once with the text face down, once reading along. Students tap any word there for its meaning.

  4. Read and check 10 min

    Students read it alone, then answer the 3 questions on the handout. Go through them together; the answers and the line that proves each are on the teacher’s page.

  5. Use it 10 min

    In pairs, each student writes two sentences of their own, one with 尽量 and one with 神秘, and reads one to the class.

Homework. Students read it again at home and Review its words. Put it in a free class (mandarinthewild.com/teachers/class) and you see who read it.

English (for the teacher)

In China, after a woman gives birth she usually "sits the month": she rests at home for about a month, goes out as little as possible and is cared for by family or a hired carer. To many foreigners this custom seems both mysterious and hard to understand, yet in China almost every family can recite a set of rules about the confinement month.

Most of the traditional rules revolve around one word: "cold". Many elders believe that a woman who has just given birth is weak and most at risk from wind and chills, so during the month the doors and windows must be kept tightly shut and she must not touch cold water, and some places even forbid washing her hair, bathing or brushing her teeth for a whole month. As for food, millet porridge, brown sugar water, chicken soup and eggs are the usual "confinement meals", while raw and cold foods are treated as taboo.

Supporters argue that the heart of the custom is sound. Giving birth takes an enormous toll on the body, and medicine usually treats roughly the first six weeks after birth as the key stage of recovery. During this period a new mother needs plenty of rest and nourishment, and someone to help look after the newborn. Sitting the month makes the whole family focus its attention on the mother, and in many people's eyes that is worth passing on.

Critics point out that some of the old rules have no scientific basis and may even harm the mother's health. Doctors generally advise that new mothers can wash their hair and bathe in warm water, and should brush their teeth as normal. Lying in bed for long stretches without moving actually slows recovery and raises the risk of blood clots. And every summer the media report the same kind of story: a new mother shut in a room with the doors and windows sealed, under a thick quilt, ends up with heatstroke.

Today the custom itself is changing too. In some big cities more and more families hire a professional "yuesao", a confinement nanny, to help at home, or simply move into a "confinement centre". Like a hotel, a confinement centre provides a room, confinement meals and care for mother and newborn, and a month there can easily cost tens of thousands of yuan. Some see hiring a yuesao or staying in a centre as a worthwhile investment; others feel it is anxiety blown up by business.

In many families the confinement month is also the time when two generations' ideas clash most fiercely. The young mother just wants to wash her hair and bathe freely in warm water, while the elders worry she will "be left with a lasting ailment" and suffer for the rest of her life. With the doctor's advice on one side and the elders' care on the other, weighing the two is often more of a headache than the rules themselves.

In the end, what matters about sitting the month is not any single rule but letting a woman who has just become a mother rest properly and be properly cared for. Does your country have a similar custom? If it were you, how would you spend that month after giving birth?

Answers

  1. C. 受风着凉: 产妇刚生完孩子,身体虚弱,最怕受风着凉
  2. B. 用温水洗头、洗澡: 医生普遍建议,产妇可以用温水洗头、洗澡,也应该正常刷牙。
  3. B. 住宿、月子餐和护理: 提供住宿、月子餐以及产妇和新生儿的护理