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Chinese funeral words and customs
Death and the funeral
去世
to pass away; to die
过世
to pass away; to die
逝世
to pass away; to die
葬礼
funeral
丧事
funeral arrangements
红白喜事
weddings and funerals
殡仪馆
funeral home
追悼会
memorial service; memorial meeting
默哀
to stand in silent tribute; to observe a moment of silence
哀悼
to mourn; to grieve
安息
to rest in peace
节哀
to restrain one's grief (said to the bereaved)
Mourning
守灵
to keep vigil beside a coffin
灵堂
mourning hall; funeral hall
遗像
portrait of the deceased
吊唁
to offer condolences
奔丧
to hurry home for a funeral
戴孝
to wear mourning
披麻戴孝
to wear mourning clothes
孝服
mourning clothes
黑纱
black armband (for mourning)
花圈
wreath
挽联
elegiac couplet
Burial
出殡
to hold a funeral procession
火化
to cremate; cremation
骨灰
ashes (of the dead); cremains
骨灰盒
cinerary urn
土葬
burial in the ground; interment
下葬
to bury (the dead); to inter
棺材
coffin
寿衣
burial clothes; shroud
墓地
cemetery; graveyard
坟墓
grave; tomb
墓碑
gravestone; tombstone
Remembering the dead
七七
forty-ninth day after a death (mourning rite)
牌位
memorial tablet; ancestral tablet
上香
to burn incense (as an offering)
祭拜
to offer sacrifices and worship; to pay respects (to ancestors)
祭祖
to offer sacrifices to one's ancestors
纸钱
paper money burned as an offering to the dead
烧纸
to burn paper offerings (for the dead)
冥币
hell money (paper money burned for the dead)
清明节
Qingming Festival; Tomb-Sweeping Day
扫墓
to sweep the graves (honoring the dead, esp. at Qingming)
上坟
to visit a grave (to pay respects)
中元节
Ghost Festival (15th day of the 7th lunar month)
What are Chinese funeral customs?
The family keeps vigil, 守灵 (shǒulíng), in a mourning hall, 灵堂 (língtáng), before a portrait of the dead, 遗像 (yíxiàng). Visitors come to pay their respects, 吊唁 (diàoyàn): they bow, offer incense and give money in a white envelope. Close family wear mourning, 戴孝 (dàixiào). After the procession, 出殡 (chūbìn), most people in mainland China are now cremated, 火化 (huǒhuà). Rites follow every seventh day up to the forty-ninth, 七七 (qīqī).
What do you wear to a Chinese funeral?
Plain black, white or dark grey, and nothing red or bright: red is for weddings and luck. The close family wear white mourning clothes, 孝服 (xiàofú), or a black armband, 黑纱 (hēishā).
How much money goes in a Chinese funeral envelope?
Money for a funeral goes in a white envelope, never a red one, and is often an odd amount, where wedding gifts are even. How much depends on how close you were. In Hong Kong, Malaysia and Singapore it is called 帛金 (bójīn).
What do you say at a Chinese funeral?
节哀 (jié’āi), please restrain your grief, said to the family, often as 节哀顺变 (jié’āi shùnbiàn). Our condolences page has more lines to say and write, each with sound.
Why do Chinese people burn paper money?
Paper money, 纸钱 (zhǐqián) or 冥币 (míngbì), is burned so the dead have money in the afterlife. Families burn it at the funeral, at 清明节 (Qīngmíng Jié), Tomb-Sweeping Day, when they sweep the graves, 扫墓 (sǎomù), and at the Ghost Festival, 中元节 (Zhōngyuán Jié).
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