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Chinese wedding words and traditions
The wedding
婚礼
wedding; wedding ceremony
结婚
to marry; to get married
新郎
bridegroom
新娘
bride
新人
newlyweds; bride and groom
伴郎
best man; groomsman
伴娘
bridesmaid
司仪
master of ceremonies; MC
证婚人
wedding officiant; witness at a wedding
婚宴
wedding banquet
喜酒
wedding feast; wedding banquet
敬酒
to propose a toast; to toast
Before the day
求婚
to propose (marriage)
提亲
to propose a marriage
订婚
to get engaged
彩礼
bride price; betrothal gifts
聘礼
betrothal gifts (from the groom's family)
嫁妆
dowry
黄道吉日
auspicious day
喜帖
wedding invitation
领证
to get a marriage license; to register a marriage
结婚证
marriage certificate
媒人
matchmaker; go-between
红娘
matchmaker
On the day
迎亲
to fetch the bride (from her home for the wedding)
花轿
bridal sedan chair
拜堂
to perform the wedding bow (traditional marriage ceremony)
拜天地
to bow to heaven and earth (in a traditional wedding)
敬茶
to serve tea (respectfully)
改口
to start calling someone by a new title (e.g. in-laws after marriage)
闹洞房
to tease newlyweds on their wedding night
洞房
bridal chamber
回门
bride's first visit to her parents after the wedding
What the couple wears
婚纱
wedding dress
旗袍
qipao; cheongsam
凤冠霞帔
phoenix crown and embroidered cape (traditional bridal attire)
红盖头
red bridal veil (covering the bride's head)
婚戒
wedding ring
Red things and gifts
双喜
double happiness
红包
red envelope (gift of money)
礼金
cash gift; monetary gift
份子钱
gift money (at weddings, etc.)
喜糖
wedding candy
Married life
嫁
(of a woman) to marry
娶
to marry (a woman); to take a wife
老公
husband
老婆
wife
公婆
husband's parents; parents-in-law
岳父母
parents-in-law (wife's parents)
新婚
newly married; newlywed
蜜月
honeymoon
婚房
marital home; newlyweds' apartment
What are the main Chinese wedding traditions?
Many weddings still follow the old order in a shorter form. The families agree the match, 提亲 (tíqīn), and the groom’s side sends the 彩礼 (cǎilǐ), betrothal gifts; a lucky date is chosen, a 黄道吉日 (huángdào jírì). On the morning the groom fetches the bride, 迎亲 (yíngqīn), past games her friends set at the door; the couple serve tea to their parents, 敬茶 (jìngchá); then comes the banquet, 婚宴 (hūnyàn), where they toast every table, 敬酒 (jìngjiǔ).
Why is everything red at a Chinese wedding?
Red is the colour of luck and joy. Doors and windows carry 囍 (xǐ), double happiness, two 喜 side by side, called 双喜 (shuāngxǐ). Many brides wear a red 旗袍 (qípáo) or a red embroidered gown for the tea ceremony and a white 婚纱 (hūnshā) for the photos and banquet.
What is the difference between 彩礼 and 嫁妆?
彩礼 (cǎilǐ) are the betrothal gifts, often money, from the groom’s family to the bride’s; 嫁妆 (jiàzhuang) is the dowry the bride brings to the marriage. How much each is differs a great deal by region and family.
How much money goes in a Chinese wedding red envelope?
The gift is money in a 红包 (hóngbāo), called 份子钱 (fènziqián) or 礼金 (lǐjīn). Give an even amount and avoid 4, which sounds like 死, death; how much depends on how close you are and where the wedding is. Our wedding wishes page has what to write and say with it.
How do you say marry in Chinese?
结婚 (jiéhūn) is to get married, for anyone: 我们结婚了, we got married. A woman 嫁 (jià), marries into a family: 她嫁给了他. A man 娶 (qǔ), takes a wife: 他娶了她.
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Words, pinyin and meanings from our own dictionary; customs differ by region and family.