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How to say sorry in Chinese

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晚上wǎnshang十一点半shíyī-diǎnbàn,安娜ānnà躺tǎng在zài床chuáng上shàng,给gěi闺蜜guīmì写xiě了le一yì条tiáo微信wēixìn:“今天jīntiān开会kāihuì,老板láobǎn一yí个gè人rén说shuō了le三sān个gè小时xiǎoshí。我wǒ睡着shuìzháo了le两liǎng次cì,他tā都dōu没méi看到kàndào!”

她tā放下fàngxià手机shǒujī,去qù洗澡xízǎo了le。

十shí分钟fēnzhōng后hòu,她tā拿起náqǐ手机shǒujī,脸liǎn一下子yíxiàzi红hóng了le。那nà条tiáo微信wēixìn没méi发给fāgěi闺蜜guīmì,发fā进jìn了le公司gōngsī群qún里!群qún里有yǒu三十sānshí个gè同事tóngshì,还有háiyǒu老板láobǎn。

她tā马上mǎshàng按àn住zhù那nà条tiáo消息xiāoxi,想xiǎng撤回chèhuí。可是kěshì太tài晚wǎn了le:消息xiāoxi发出fāchū两liǎng分钟fēnzhōng以后yǐhòu,就jiù撤回chèhuí不bù了liǎo了le。

只能zhǐnéng道歉dàoqiàn了le。安娜ānnà学xué了le两liǎng年nián中文zhōngwén,知道zhīdào三sān个gè道歉dàoqiàn的de词cí。

“对不起duìbuqǐ”?太tài重zhòng了le,好像hǎoxiàng她tā把bǎ老板láobǎn的de车chē开进kāijìn了le河hé里。

“不好意思bùhǎoyìsi”?这个zhège太tài轻qīng了le,好像hǎoxiàng她tā只是zhǐshì开会kāihuì迟到chídào了le一yì分钟fēnzhōng。

“抱歉bàoqiàn”?不太bútài重zhòng,也yě不太bútài轻qīng,工作gōngzuò的de时候shíhou常用chángyòng。就是jiùshì它tā了le!

她tā认真rènzhēn地de写xiě:“抱歉bàoqiàn,这zhè条tiáo消息xiāoxi是shì发给fāgěi朋友péngyǒu的de。”又yòu看kàn了le三sān遍biàn,才cái敢gǎn发出fāchū去qù。

群qún里很hěn安静ānjìng,三十sānshí个gè人rén,没有méiyǒu一个yígè说话shuōhuà。安娜ānnà看kàn着zhe手机shǒujī,等děng老板láobǎn说shuō“没关系méiguānxi”。

一yì分钟fēnzhōng后hòu,老板láobǎn回huí了le一yí句jù:

“现在xiànzài看到kàndào了le。”

Key words

WordPinyinMeaning
开会kāihuìto have a meeting; to attend a meeting
洗澡xízǎoto bathe; to take a bath or shower
脸liǎnface
同事tóngshìcolleague; coworker
以后yǐhòulater; afterwards; in the future
只能zhǐnéngcan only; have no choice but to
河hériver
迟到chídàoto be late; to arrive late
常用chángyòngcommonly used; everyday
认真rènzhēnconscientious; earnest; serious; to take seriously
遍biàneverywhere; all over
安静ānjìngquiet; peaceful; calm

English (for the teacher)

At half past eleven at night, Anna lay in bed and wrote a WeChat message to her best friend: “In today’s meeting, the boss did all the talking for three hours. I fell asleep twice, and he didn’t see either time!”

She put her phone down and went to have a shower.

Ten minutes later, she picked up her phone and her face went red. It hadn’t gone to her best friend. It had gone to the company group chat! Thirty colleagues were in that group, and so was the boss.

She pressed and held the message straight away to unsend it. But it was too late: after two minutes, a message can’t be unsent.

All she could do was apologise. Anna had been learning Chinese for two years, and she knew three words for sorry.

“I’m sorry”? Too heavy, as if she’d driven the boss’s car into a river.

“Sorry about that”? This one was too light, as if she’d only been a minute late for a meeting.

“My apologies”? Not too heavy, not too light, and common at work. That was the one!

She wrote carefully: “My apologies, this message was meant for a friend.” She read it three more times before she dared to send it.

The group was silent. Thirty people, and not one of them said a word. Anna watched her phone, waiting for the boss to say “That’s OK”.

A minute later, the boss replied:

“I’ve seen it now.”