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Chinese honorifics
Polite everyday
您
(polite) you
先生
Mr.; sir
女士
lady; madam
小姐
Miss; young lady
太太
wife; Mrs. (form of address)
老师
teacher
师傅
(polite) form of address for a driver or tradesman
老板
boss; owner (of a shop or business)
同学
student (form of address)
帅哥
handsome guy
美女
miss (to address a young woman)
小姐姐
young lady; miss (friendly term for a young woman)
小哥哥
young guy; cute young man
亲
(internet) dear (form of address)
Family words for anyone
阿姨
aunt (term of address for a woman of one's mother's generation)
叔叔
(polite) uncle; mister (used by children)
大爷
(polite) grandpa; old sir (to an older man)
大妈
auntie (polite address for an older woman)
大哥
(polite) elder brother (form of address for a man about one's age)
大姐
big sister (polite address for a woman a bit older)
哥哥
guy (form of address for a young man)
姐姐
miss; sister (form of address for a young woman)
嫂子
(polite) form of address for a married woman
小朋友
little friend (to address a child)
Before and after a name
老
(prefix) used before family names or ranks
小
(prefix) used before names: little; young
阿
(prefix) used before names and kinship terms
总
boss (title after a surname)
经理
manager; director
主任
director; head
医生
doctor
大夫
doctor; physician
教授
professor
领导
leader; boss
At school
学长
senior schoolmate (male)
学姐
senior female schoolmate
学弟
junior male schoolmate
学妹
junior female student; younger female schoolmate
Martial arts and novels
师父
master; teacher (in a craft, martial art, or religion)
师尊
master (respectful term for one's teacher)
师兄
senior fellow student or disciple (male)
师姐
senior female fellow student or apprentice
师弟
junior male fellow student or apprentice
师妹
junior female fellow student or apprentice
前辈
senior; elder
晚辈
younger generation; junior
在下
(humble) I; me
大侠
great hero; knight-errant
公子
young gentleman
姑娘
girl; young woman
掌门
head of a martial arts school or sect
道长
Taoist priest (respectful form of address)
The court and the palace
陛下
Your Majesty; His or Her Majesty
殿下
Your Highness; His or Her Highness
皇上
the emperor; Your Majesty
皇后
empress; queen consort
太子
crown prince
公主
princess
王爷
prince; lord (title in imperial China)
娘娘
empress; imperial concubine
贵妃
imperial concubine of the highest rank
格格
princess (Manchu title for daughters of nobility)
阿哥
prince (in the Qing court)
大人
(polite) Your Excellency; lord (form of address for officials or elders)
夫人
wife; madame
老爷
master; lord
少爷
young master (son of a rich family)
How do you address someone politely in Chinese?
Say 您 (nín, you) for you, and put the title after the surname: 王先生 (Wáng xiānsheng), Mr Wang; 李女士 (Lǐ nǚshì), Ms Li; 张老师 (Zhāng lǎoshī) for a teacher. Call a driver or workman 师傅 (shīfu, form of address for a driver or tradesman), and a shop owner 老板 (lǎobǎn, boss).
Why do Chinese people call strangers auntie and uncle?
Family words are used for anyone, by age. A woman your mother’s age is 阿姨 (āyí, aunt) and a man your father’s age 叔叔 (shūshu, uncle); an older man is 大爷 (dàyé, grandpa) and an older woman 大妈 (dàmā, auntie); someone a little older than you is 大哥 (dàgē, elder brother) or 大姐 (dàjiě, big sister).
What do 老 and 小 before a name mean?
老 (lǎo) before a surname is for a friend or colleague your age or older: 老王. 小 (xiǎo) is for someone younger: 小王. A boss is called by surname and 总 (zǒng): 王总. 阿 (ā) before a name is friendly, more in the south: 阿明.
What does gege mean?
哥哥 (gēge) is an older brother, and also a friendly word for a young man; in dramas and fandom it is what fans call a male star. 姐姐 (jiějie) works the same way for a young woman.
Is it rude to call a woman 小姐?
After a surname, 王小姐 (Wáng xiǎojiě) is the polite Miss Wang. On its own, to call a waitress, it can sound rude in mainland China, where it was slang for a hostess; people say 服务员 (fúwùyuán) or 美女 (měinǚ) instead. In Taiwan and Hong Kong it is still fine.
What do the honorifics in wuxia and xianxia novels mean?
师父 (shīfu) is your master. Those who joined the school before you are 师兄 (shīxiōng) and 师姐 (shījiě), after you 师弟 (shīdì) and 师妹 (shīmèi). Anyone senior in the martial world is 前辈 (qiánbèi), you are their 晚辈 (wǎnbèi), and a polite hero calls himself 在下 (zàixià), “the one below”. 师父 and 师傅 sound the same: 师父 is your own master, 师傅 a skilled worker.
How do you address royalty in Chinese?
The emperor is 陛下 (bìxià), Your Majesty, or 皇上 (huángshang); a prince or princess is 殿下 (diànxià), Your Highness; an empress or consort is 娘娘 (niángniang); an official was called 大人 (dàrén), Your Excellency.
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